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Where Does the Term “Gaslighting” Come From?

Gaslighting is one of those terms that we hear often in the mental health world today.  It is a common tool narcissists will use to control those around them and is an oh-too-common occurrence when discussing emotional manipulation.

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Quincee Gideon Quincee Gideon

5 Types of Gaslighting

Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation that causes the victim to question their sanity, their instincts, or their perception of events. You’ve probably experienced it, even if you didn’t have the words to describe what was happening to you.

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Lauryn Lucido, LMFT Lauryn Lucido, LMFT

Woven’s Approach to EMDR

There are many places and providers offering EMDR therapy. The therapeutic relationship is the most important factor in the success of therapy, so we always want you to find the therapist that works best for you. With that in mind, we work hard to create a safe, empathic environment for you whether you come to see us for psychotherapy or EMDR therapy.

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Lauryn Lucido, LMFT Lauryn Lucido, LMFT

EMDR: Your Questions Answered

Get your EMDR questions answered here. We talk about how EMDR works, whether it might be right for your specific struggle, and how our staff creates a warm and inviting space to help you safely process your trauma.

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Lauryn Lucido, LMFT Lauryn Lucido, LMFT

What is EMDR?

EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It is an evidence-based psychotherapy practice meant to reduce symptoms of traumatic memories and events.

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Quincee Gideon Quincee Gideon

Ways to protect yourself from emotional manipulation

My favorite thing to do is to stop toxicity and abuse in its tracks by empowering folks to see emotional manipulation from a mile away. Are you ready? Here are the ways to protect yourself from emotional manipulation:

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Dr. Ruth Gatt Dr. Ruth Gatt

Gaslighting and Psychological Abuse

We get a lot of questions about gaslighting.  One of the most common has to do with whether or not the experience "counts" as gaslighting, and where gaslighting fits under the Trauma umbrella. Gaslighting feeds off of confusion and murkiness, so let's shed some light here. 

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Quincee Gideon Quincee Gideon

A Deeper Dive into Netflix’s “Maid”

By now, you’ve probably seen the show MAID pop up on your Netflix suggestions. You might have even watched it and it gave you a lot to think about. Maid points out some incredibly important nuances to how abusive relationships and domestic violence play out for those attempting to escape. Let’s talk through the important things that happened over the series that helps you understand what you are going through or what others might suffer when trying to escape.

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Dr. Ruth Gatt Dr. Ruth Gatt

Working Through Dissociation in Therapy

Dissociation refers to a shutdown of sensory experience. There are two main types of dissociation, which include shame and terror dissociation. Both are developed in response to severe or ongoing trauma. This means that during a traumatic event, or a series of traumatic events (such as we often see in survivors of childhood abandonment, neglect, or other types of abuse), our best option was to disconnect. 

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Dr. Ruth Gatt Dr. Ruth Gatt

What is dissociation and why does it happen?

Dissociation is one way that the brain and body respond to difficult, trauma-induced emotions. It is the ultimate state of hiding or escaping from the intense danger that your body has registered either outside or inside yourself.

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Dr. Quincee Gideon Dr. Quincee Gideon

Religious Trauma + Sexual Repression

One of the most obvious and painful parts of religious trauma is the sexual repression that is often baked into the theology, dogma, or rules of our religious communities. Because sexuality is such a personal and unavoidable part of the human experience, those that are repressed tend to feel traumatized by their identities being denied and “in the name of God.”

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Religious Trauma + Emotional Manipulation

It’s sometimes hard to imagine how the church and religious communities that teach love and compassion can become abusive and harmful.  But any institution, when power structures go unchecked and the “message” becomes more important than the people, is vulnerable to becoming harmful, rather than helpful.  This typically happens slowly over time and can be hard to see when you are inside the community.  

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Dr. Ruth Gatt Dr. Ruth Gatt

3 Main Processes of Attachment Therapy

Attachment therapy uses the framework of Attachment Theory, which helps us to understand how relationships with our primary caregivers predict our sense of safety and security in the world, starting in infancy. These early relationships also tell us how safe other people are, how hard we should work to express or reject our emotional needs, and how deserving of love we are as individuals--felt “truths” that we can’t help but carry with us long after they’re born.  

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Dr. Ruth Gatt Dr. Ruth Gatt

4 Benefits of Inner Child Work

Inner child work is a style of therapy that focuses on addressing unmet childhood needs and healing attachment wounds while exploring how the inner child shows up in your adult life.

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Helen Jun PhD Helen Jun PhD

Four Things That May Surprise You About Religious Trauma

Recovering from religious trauma can be overwhelming and confusing, but there are commonalities that those with religious trauma share which may demystify the experience for you and help you feel less alone. Here are four things that may surprise you about religious trauma.

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Everything You Need to Know About Premarital Counseling

Most people who have heard the term “premarital counseling” tend to associate it with therapy for only engaged couples, and oftentimes with a priest/pastor. However, premarital counseling is an option for any couples who are either engaged, considering marriage, or considering what it would look like to commit to their partner long-term.

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Fall Fictional Reading List for 2021

Woven Trauma Therapy consists of a group of therapists that love reading (and watching Bravo). Of course, there’s lots of reading for the trauma care we provide to our patients, but we also love a good fiction story. It helps us get out of our heads and into another world. We’ve curated our reading list for fiction for the fall of 2021. Come read with us.

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Therapy, CPTSD Dr. Ruth Gatt Therapy, CPTSD Dr. Ruth Gatt

How We Treat Complex PTSD

At Woven, we specialize in relational, depth-oriented therapy approaches that provide a solid foundation for the delicate and challenging work of Complex PTSD treatment. Here, I describe 3 Steps we use to address CPTSD for our Clients, sharing in detail what this style of treatment looks like. I also explain the role of grief work in treating complex PTSD.

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CPTSD, Trauma Dr. Ruth Gatt CPTSD, Trauma Dr. Ruth Gatt

Grief and Complex Trauma

In trauma work, I hear this question all the time. Understandably, people want to know why it matters if they grieve the past (or present) or not. Moreover, people worry about being overcome or undone by their grief, should they let it out. This process can be difficult, but grieving is one of the most powerful tools at our disposal to heal childhood wounds and other trauma across the lifespan.

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